The body holds stories and truths that words alone cannot express. Attuning to bodily experiences can deepen the therapeutic work and facilitate healing.
Michael Soth
Discover the hidden power of your inner child. Join renowned psychotherapist Michael Soth for a transformative journey that will help you heal emotional wounds, unlock your true potential, and restore a sense of joy and wholeness to your life. Take the first step towards self-discovery and emotional freedom today.
Online Zoom Workshop for all adults and their inner children
November 2nd – November 3d, 15.00 – 21.00
Online via ZOOM
The concept of the ‘inner child’ has proven its therapeutic potential across many different psychological therapies and in many different contexts. Many people all over the world have benefited from reconnecting with and re-membering their ‘inner child’. It is a profound idea giving rise to powerful methods of therapy and self development. Across the whole spectrum of human emotional experience, from trauma, neglect, pain and shame on the one hand, to playfulness, joy, awe, inspiration and love on the other, the inner child is a vital source of creativity, intimacy, purpose and meaning.
However, as every powerful idea and tool that holds potential for radical and therefore frightening transformation, it is not immune against being used in defensive, sabotaging, unskilful and counter-productive ways. The concept of the ‘inner child’ attracts magical thinking, and the quite understandable and valid longing for a fairy godmother waving a magic wand, taking away all the pain and helplessness. Having practised and used the idea of the ‘inner child’ through a variety of therapeutic or self-help methods, many people struggle with disappointment or blame themselves for having failed to do it properly, when the desired results are not forthcoming. We must face also the suspicious, mistrustful, recalcitrant child that has lost faith in adults, including ourselves.
For many people the main problem with inner child work is that they feel it doesn’t actually translate into their adult life or benefit their outer relationships. We do not want the inner child to get lost in a fantasy of eternal youth, like a Peter Pan or Cinderella universe, or to be trapped like Narcissus gazing at his own reflection and only hearing echoes of his admiring Echo.
In this workshop, suitable both for interested members of the general public, as well as practitioners in the helping and therapeutic professions, we will approach ‘inner child’ work in an embodied and experiential way. Even experienced practitioners will find it useful to engage in their own process through the experiential exercises, as well as being able to use their skills in small group work and learn from experiencing and discussing the demonstrations.
To really do justice to the inner children and their powerful longing to manifest their potential, we must not resort to facile techniques and wishful thinking, but acknowledge fully the past traumas, the conflicts and growing pains which are part of any organic development. Genuine fulfilment in adult life, through curious engagement, impactful effectiveness, joyful competence and passionate loving requires robust and sustained development, born out of patient, committed and tenacious attentiveness, allowing an integration of child and adult into a whole that is larger than the sum of its parts.
Like every blood-and-flesh child, whether that is ‘you’ decades ago, your own children now, or any child in your life, your ‘inner child’ needs mindful sustained parental attention, both from yourself and from people around you. This is complicated by the fact that as the child develops, its needs change quite radically from phase to phase, oscillating between closeness and separation/differentiation.
This weekend is an opportunity to engage with the complex reality of your inner children, warts and all. The workshop is designed to give space to all of you, your adult AND your inner child, taking your embodied experience as a starting point, whatever that is. Seriously: whatever the relationship between your adult and your child, that’s where we will start: we will be curious about their unique relationship with each other, whether they are meeting or not meeting, connected or disconnected, loving, hateful or indifferent. We all understand intuitively that access to child consciousness and to the younger self cannot happen or be imposed on adult terms. To find the ‘truth’ of the child, we need to meet the child on their own terms, through their vital faculties, through the body and through the imagination.
Bringing a mature parental attentiveness, loving but firm, neither indulgent nor harsh, ready to meet your shame and avoidances, we will build together a powerful experiential space, even though we meet in cyberspace. We invite your participation and contribution, to bring your vulnerability and power, all your inner children and all your vital adult and parental qualities and faculties.
This will be an online Zoom weekend, organised in Greece for Greek participants, but taking place in English with simultaneous Greek translation, so English-speaking participants from across the planet are invited. We can expect that participants will bring quite different levels of previous experience to this workshop as well as familiarity with different kinds of therapy – we will try to do justice to this and attempt to try and turn that problem into a productive feature of our work together.
Michael has experimented for quite a few years now with the online format of Zoom for shared group experience, in a way that maximises spontaneous and embodied engagement. From the depth and breadth of wisdom gathered from across the diverse field of psychotherapy, he will offer some accessible ideas and principles regarding the concept of the ‘inner child’, giving some theoretical frame to our exploration so that we can more deeply attend to each other’s experience. Most of the weekend is dedicated to experiential engagement through pair work, small group work and especially to individual demonstrations, when Michael will work with volunteers from the group. Most participants find that – whether they volunteer or not – they can identify and have their own issues touched and addressed through somebody else’s individual work that resonates deeply.
We want to be mindful of confidentiality, and commit to a shared undertaking that nothing from the workshop will be indiscreetly shared with others, other than your very own personal-professional responses to the workshop.
The body holds stories and truths that words alone cannot express. Attuning to bodily experiences can deepen the therapeutic work and facilitate healing.
Michael Soth
Michael Soth is an integral-relational Body Psychotherapist, trainer and supervisor, who studied, lived and worked in the UK between 1982 and 2021. During those four decades, he taught on a variety of counselling and therapy training courses, alongside working as Training Director at the Chiron Centre for Body Psychotherapy.
Inheriting concepts, values and ways of working from both psychoanalytic and humanistic traditions, he is interested in the therapeutic relationship as a bodymind process between two people who are both wounded and whole.
In his work and teaching, he integrates an unusually wide range of psychotherapeutic approaches, working towards full-spectrum integration of all therapeutic modalities and approaches, each with their gifts, wisdoms and expertise as well as their shadow aspects, fallacies and areas of obliviousness.
His
original training at Chiron in the early 1980’s was based on body-oriented
holistic psychotherapy, strongly rooted in the Reichian and post-Reichian
tradition (including Alexander Lowen’s Bioenergetics, David Boadella’s
Biosynthesis and Gerda Boyesen’s Biodynamic Psychology). These approaches gave
him a grounding in bottom-up, energetic, bodymind ways of thinking and working,
which were supplemented by Gestalt, Process-oriented Psychology and a variety
of complementary holistic bodywork therapies. Towards the end of the 1980s –
through his practice and his own process – he began developing psychoanalytic
understandings across a variety of psychodynamic orientations, like object
relations, interpersonal and relational psychoanalysis, also including Jungian
analytic psychology and Hillman’s archetypal psychology. During the 1990s, he
became one of the early pioneers of psychotherapy integration in the UK,
reaching further into other traditions and approaches like existential,
systemic and family constellations.
Being
deeply embedded in the body-oriented tradition through his original training,
then spending many years familiarising himself not only with the theories and
techniques of psychoanalysis, but through his own therapy and process absorbing
the relational atmosphere that underpins postmodern understandings of
transference and countertransference, he has become increasingly able over the
last 30 years to build bridges between these traditions. Michael demonstrates
that whilst there are many philosophical and irreconcilable paradigm clashes
between them, in practice the contradictions can be I brought together into a
coherent integrative way of working, although out there in the field the
traditions largely remain as segregated as they were decades ago.
The topic of this weekend takes at its starting point the most simple and accessible formulation of psychoanalytic relationality, and builds a foundation for participants finding their own integration.
In 2021 Michael
left the UK, and is now living near the rainforest in Central America, where he
continues to work online as well as building a sustainable regenerative retreat
and refuge, which will host workshops and trainings in the future.
He has
written numerous articles and is a frequent presenter at conferences. He is co-editor of the Handbook of Body Psychotherapy
and Somatic Psychology, published in 2015. Extracts from his published writing as well as hand-outs, blogs and
summaries of presentations are available through his website for INTEGRA CPD:
www.integra-cpd.co.uk.